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Hey there! I"m an independant girl~ with respect to my opinions and thought process, living in the beautiful City of Joy i.e. Kolkata,India. As I've mentioned in one of my posts that blogs are just people's personal perspective and sentiments voiced through writings,...so here am I sharing my opinions about life as well as contemporary time ! Besides that , I love to play with words. Hope you all like it! and feel free to criticize! All your comments will be accepted graciously! I hope my posts will voice the opinion of many!
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Thursday, March 3, 2011

......THE F-WORD......


BEFORE you guys permit your minds to wander through the
territories of insolence ,i would like to tell that for me The F-word means family and friends.Dating back to the origin of human civilization , the wise and the old have said ,time and again,that human is a social animal.Although he comes alone to this earth,buthe cannot survive alone lifelong.A man who says that he can live alone throughout hislifetime without anyone's support is a liar.
Here,comes the concept of family.A family , in its true sense , forms the backbone of a man's personality.From birth , apart from all the phenotypic
characters ,it helps in building up his moral character and taste.The family treads
through the realms of commitments and social boundaries. The support from hisfamily ,
helps a man to come out of his comfort zone and fight against all odds in order to live upto his own expectations.A true family , in my opinion,is one that supports you in anydamn situation, not just because they've no other option ,but they love you and take pridein doing so.A man's family members are the only people whom he can expect tofind ,standing beside him,both in his sunny and cloudy days.To me family is the cornerstone of a man's existence.
Next comes the concept of friends.But before we talk about this touchy topic, i would also like to say that in order to make friends a person has to be non-egoistic, selfless to some extent and of course friendly.Again,the family factor intrudes upon the "friend-zone".In my opinion it is the family which teaches us to become selfless and to live for others.As far the friends are concerned we are all well aware of the saying,"a friend in need,is a friend indeed" and trust me this saying is true to its core.One may find thousands of results, if he googles this particular word,but for me a true friend
is defined as a person who gives constant support , shows faith in you even in a loss-loss situation , really becomes a synonym for your shadow and above all helps you to differentiate between good and bad.
The point of telling all this , is that nowadays , it seems as though people have forgotten the meanings of these specific words. I don't blame them.Since I know that this issue is far more grave.With each passing moment of life man is becoming more selfish,inclined or rather limited to his own needs.As a result joint families have died giving rise to nuclear ones.Friends have turned into foes and so on and so forth.Hence it is my earnest request to all my readers that from this instance, try to rise above all differences, shed off your inhibitions and work towards making the world a better place to live in, as it is never too late,friends and also because "UNITED WE STAND DIVIDED WE FALL".